I adore my husband with everything that is ME. We are polar opposites in some areas of our life, and in others we are so alike that it becomes quite a struggle. For instance we are both hard-headed mules (I think I said that once before!) and we're both quite competetive. We enjoy similar things, but there are other things we don't just "get" about each other. And that's ok. I like that - it means there are things to look forward to in the future.
This book was filled with the results of Shaunti's research by surveying LOTS of men (now wouldn't that be a cool job?) in all walks of life. Most amazing to me was how no matter what kind of life these men led, they all shared similar answers to how they want to be treated, loved, respected and admired and they mostly had similar feelings ABOUT the women in their lives. These are things that men wish women knew. Now, I feel like I know a little secret, but just for you I want to share it.
If you have any doubts about how your husband feels about you. GO BUY THIS BOOK.
If you always find yourself wondering why he does things the way he does. BUY THE BOOK!
If you really desire to see your marriage grow and become healthier. GET THE BOOK
But most of all if you want some real answers to loving your man the way he wants to be loved, you really would benefit from reading For Women Only.
It is by no means a "get fixed quick" scheme (yes, I just made that up), or a dose of polite words on how to submit to your master, it's down to earth, practical and it feels like having a really frank talk with your best friend who knows better than you and has the evidence to back it up.
One word of caution: You need to be ready for this book. You will not enjoy it or learn anything from it if you're having a meltdown or you're trodding the dangerous land of PMS.